Summer Vacation: Week 2 - MAINE

From Hearts Everywhere


Week 2 was easier since we were based in one place (Bar Harbor cottage). I highly recommend staying in a rental rather than a hotel when traveling with children. A separate bedroom for parents and children and a kitchen go a long way towards maintaining sanity and recreating any semblance of the much-needed routine they crave.

Reading back on my notes in retrospect, I think I was all parts brave, a good sport, and partially psychotic in attempting a "vacation" such as this. I was lucky since after two weeks with me, the 8-year-old got to go on another vacation with his father, and I had only the baby with us for the last two weeks.

These past two weeks in New York was just us three, hanging out at home and relaxing, detoxing, and loving. These two weeks were exactly the vacation I needed to end the summer we welcomed Mackenzie into our life.

I realize how very lucky I am to have this time to completely enjoy life - and a loving partner that holds my hand through the sweet ride.


Here's another over-detailed account of what week two of our summer trip looked like; pictures at the end.


Saturday, August 21, 2010
  • Drove from Portland to Bar Harbor, Maine.
  • Breakfast at Denny’s – Jake’s fave.
  • Went to BabiesRUs first to get a travel bed for our cottage (we were using the hotel’s cribs up until now and didn’t bring our own because we had no more room in our car).
  • Went to see Portland Head Light where Jake got to climb rocks and collect quartz, see crabs and snails and Andrew got to sustain an injury during quartz acquisition.
  • Snacked in the car all day rather than eating any real meal other than Denny’s. Wendy’s frostys for dinner. Bad mother guilt.
  • Arrived at cottage where we were pleasantly surprised – but the beds seem very hard.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

  • Breakfast at home made with local groceries.
  • Went to Acadia Visitor Center, hiked at Sandy Beach (where Jake and Andrew climbed all the way up the rocks and I watched nervously) and hiked to Otter Point (where incidentally there are no otters).
  • Dinner at Geddy’s in Bar Harbor.

Monday, August 23, 2010

  • Attempted to do cereal-crusted French toast for breakfast – not a huge success. Mostly blamed the stove and the frying pan.
  • Hiked around Witch Pond – same 3.3 mile-hike that the Obama family did a few weeks ago.. Jake made a friend: Serge, the grasshopper.
  • Dinner at the Thirsty Whale in Bar Harbor
  • Movie night at home (Where the Wild Things Are). The movie turned out to be too dark for the tv we had there - so we cut it short.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

  • Went to Echo Lake Beach for the day – my first lake beach. No waves crashing sounds in the background so it was hard to feel 100% beach like, but it was the closest I had gotten all summer.
  • This was one of my favorite days of vacation. We finally got to slow down. Jake was able to go into the water by himself without me having the paranoia that the waves would steal him. Andrew made a painting - and I did nothing for a few minutes. It was fabulous, but I felt guilty because Jake kept asking me to go into the water, but I never got hot enough. (But Andrew spent a lot of time in the water with him – he just wanted to see me be cold or splash me.)
  • Went to Thurston’s Lobster Pound in Bernard, Maine, just past Bass Harbor for dinner. Best lobster we’ve had on this trip. We had soft shelled lobster, since it was soft shell lobster season (and all they had left). It was easier to crack than the hard shell, but it was still a hard shell. Whatever they call it - I call it delicious.
  • Jake wanted none of eating the lobsters so I ended up coming home and cooking him delicious chicken. Yes, eventually he’ll see the irony.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

  • It rained so hard we stayed home all day and watched Alladin and ate snacks, including nachos with guacamole and dark chocolate peanut m&m’s.
  • Andrew and I went to the overpriced Sawyer’s Market in Southwest Harbor to get fish and cook at home. We made a delicious feast and I somehow concocted a sautéed, granola-crumb encrusted haddock using whatever snack materials of food we had. We also had garlic mashed potatoes, corn and salad with thousand island dressing, which I never knew I liked.
  • We attempted to watch the original Batman movie (the one with Michael Keaton) and both Jake and I thought it was boring and didn’t make it until the end.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

  • Drove to Cadillac Mountain where we did part of the South Ridge Trail hike from there.
  • Hike turned out to be 7-mile up treacherous rocks rather than the suspected .3 mile easy hike around the summit. Had Mackenzie strapped to me via Ergo Baby Carrier the entire time. We ended up doing about a mile of it.
  • Went to Pirate’s Cove mini golf – for 36-holes of fun. Jake even won us a free game by getting a hole-in-one. Had Gifford’s ice cream in between first 18 holes and next.
  • Attempted to eat at the Fiddler’s Green, but it turned out to be like the Nobu of the region. It was right about 8pm when the over-friendly hostess let me know that she’s got about 15 tables coming in (I think that meant reservations) and well, she had this rehearsal dinner party that took up the whole balcony – and she just could not do it. She suggested 3 other places “in town” (translation: 2 blocks away and for a span of two blocks). The first one we never found despite the very obvious directions of “between the first bank and the second bank.” The second one was a restaurant at an Inn that appeared over priced and empty. The third was a café/deli/ice cream place across the street. We decided that was our best, most effective choice that late at night with two kids on tow.
  • Dinner at Quietside Café in Southwest Harbor. Nice waitress from Macedonia, where she told us, is just south of Greece, since most Americans don’t know geography.
Friday, August 27, 2010
  • Went to Bass Harbor Head Light (http://lighthouse.cc/bassharbor/) where I really shouldn’t have been hiking on the rocks with a 2-month-old in the baby carrier. Drove to Boston, where we rested for the night and visited with Andrew’s cousins.

Saturday, August 28, 2010





Flowers in front of our cottage.


More flowers.

From Hearts Everywhere

Portland Head Light. When we were there two years ago, the sky was just as white.



Portland Head Light. Closer up.


Portland Head Light – a little further away.


Before the boys climbed the higher rocks - a family shot at Sandy Beach, Acadia National Park.


A man got off his bike in the middle of a misty ride and asked us if we wanted a photo with all 4 of us before we started the Witch Hole Pond hike. We did. We did half of the 3-mile hike in the rain. It was kind of boring.


The Obama family walked this very path (Witch Hole Pond @ Acadia National Park) a few weeks before us.


On the Witch Pond Road hike, Jake and his grasshopper friend, Serge.


Someone made a stick of blueberries. Witch Hole Pond - Acadia State Park.


A lotus grows amidst a mossy lake. Acadia National Park.


Just a nearby view on top of Cadillac Mountain.


Sitting pretty on top of Cadillac Mountain.



Lots of colors on top of Cadillac Mountain.



Bass Harbor Head Light


The photogenic, quintessential shot of Bass Harbor Head Light.


In front of Bass Harbor Head Light. I should not have climbed out there holding the baby.


On the road to Boston.

Summer Vacation - Week 1: NEW HAMPSHIRE



So it took me two weeks of detox to finally go through pictures and find the strength to post notes from our vacation. [Note - that if 2 weeks seems long, I still have not posted notes or photos from last year's 10-state in 10-day road trip. That trip was sans children and had 5 times the amount of photos. I still haven't given up hope that I would post the photos, mostly because they're MUCH BETTER than these.]

Overall the first vacation with the 4 of us was a great success. It wasn't easy, or necessarily relaxing, but absolutely memorable. Both the 8-year-old and the 2-month old were fabulously behaved. Jake read the first 7 books of the Series of Unfortunate Events series as well as the third Harry Potter book. He NEVER complained about being in the car.

Mackenzie loved eating boob on top of the inflatable brest friend in the car and on the mountains.

Week one of the trip we bounced around a bit (Portsmouth, White Mountains, Portland) and week two was all in Bar Harbor where we rented a cottage. That was easier. The packing up of the car every two nights was insane. Next time we travel much lighter and bring much fewer snacks.

Here is what we did, for those who are curious enough to read. Or for those planning a family trip anywhere to NH or Maine. Mostly these notes are for myself to have record since the older I get, the faster time goes, and the weaker the memory muscle feels. (You can also scroll to the bottom to see a few photos.)

Sunday, August 15, 2010

  • Drove to Acton, Massachusetts to visit Sadie, Dan & Family.
  • On way, we stopped in Yalesville, CT to feed Mackenzie and take some impromptu snapshots of a reservoir.
  • Dinner with old college friends and family – delicious heirloom tomatoes.
  • Drove to Portsmouth, NH.

Monday, August 16, 2010

  • Breakfast at the Friendly Toast. The food was great and the décor was both interesting and great entertainment for an ‘I Spy’ game.
  • Walked around downtown Portsmouth including down the Portsmouth Harbour Trail.
  • Stopped in cute stores like Macro Polo where they sold doggy turd, books with pictures of cock on it, and overpriced fake silly putty marketed as something else.
  • We perused a gorgeous garden with the Moffatt-Ladd House in the background. I don’t know who Moffatt or Ladd was – but the light blue Colonial house was home to William Whipple, signer of the Declaration of Independence. (No relation to Mr. Whipple of the Charmin toilet paper commercials.
  • Indulged in ice cream at Annabelle’s.
  • Walked around Prescott Park - beautiful gardens and since they were having an arts festival, they had a theatre backdrop set up and Jake loved to pretend. I jumped.
  • We watched the Memorial Bridge raise for a boat over the Piscataqua River. We also liked saying Piscataqua over and over.
  • Dinner at the Portsmouth Brewery.
  • Jake took forever to fall asleep so Andrew & I have adult time in the bathroom and try to download more iPod apps.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010

  • Breakfast at the Friendly Toast. Again.
  • Beach day – attempt to hit Hampton Beach, Rye Beach and Plum Island. Instead spent most of the day on Jenness State Beach, where Jake makes a friend and falls in love with a boogy board.
  • Back to hotel for indoor pool sand clean up and shower for dinner (but not before Mackenzie had a little 7pm "I’m tired" cry).
  • Dinner at the Common Man, which had great service but mediocre food. Their specialty crab cakes just tasted raw inside. Josh, the server, though – lovely guy who has a passion for orange soda.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

  • Packed up room to check out. This is an act we mastered over the course of the two weeks.
  • Breakfast at the Friendly Toast. Again - where 3 times was not a charm. Soggy (later comped) French Toast and overly spicy and undercooked home fries. The ‘I Spy’ game had reached maximum capacity.
  • Went to Water Country where Jake didn’t get to go on all the rides and gave me a heart attack when we went into the wave pool by himself. Ended up making friends with two 12-year-old girls and went on a ride with them – girl’s name ended up being MacKenzie.
  • Drove to Littleton, NH, through the White Mountains in the dark. Dinner at McDonalds. Two stops required for feeding.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

  • Mackenzie’s first official (awake) giggle – Andrew playing peek-a-boo with her in the morning on the hotel bed.
  • First stop was to Franconia State Park in the heart of the White Mountains.
  • Stopped at The Basin where I breastfed in the car and Jake & A went to see it.
  • Hiked to The Flume Gorge.
  • Rode the Tram up Cannon Mountain.
  • Took a short hike to observation deck – where we were able to see Vermont, Maine & Brunswick, Nova Scotia in Canada (They all look like distant mountains to me).
  • Drove to Littleton downtown … Main Street.
  • Took a walk across Littleton's covered bridge.
  • Had a sweet visit to Chutters Candy Shop, home to the world's largest candy counter.
  • Dinner at the Littleton Diner (old train car) where the homemade food surprised all of us.
Friday, August 20, 2010




These yellow wild flowers were in abundance in New Hampshire and Maine. (They were like the hearts everywhere.) I LOVE them.


Welcome to Portsmouth, New Hampshire.


Flowers in the foreground, bricks in the back.


The clock downtown.


Preview of the Maine to come.


More flowers. The wild flowers and gardens were gorgeous and I'm obsessed with capturing flowers on macro. I have tried to restrict how many I post.


Flowers in the gorgeous garden between the Moffatt-Ladd house and the Seaport.


The Moffatt-Ladd House.


The Portsmouth seaport. In sepia.


Prescott Park.


Portsmouth Seaport.


In the gardens of Prescott Park.


Mid-fountain. Prescott Park.


My boy.


My girl. Back of the car diaper changes were standard protocol.


Wooden bridge in Franconia State Park.


Family photo mid hike at Franconia.


Covered bridge on the hike to The Flume at Franconia State Park in New Hampshire.


Jake in front of the Glacial Boulder on the hike to The Flume.


The tram up to Mt. Cannon.


The view from the top of the tram ride up to Cannon Mountain.


Me and my kiddos on top of Mt. Cannon.


The covered bridge of Littleton, NH.


Flowers in front of the covered bridge in Littleton, NH.


The candy counter at Chutters. Littleton, NH.